Our advice is to read
https://www.ftla.uk/private-parking-tickets/read-this-first-private-parking-charges-forum-guide/ and follow its advice and instructions, including posting every bit of correspondence here for us to see.
If you named yourself as driver, then you shot yourself in the foot, because you destroyed a strong avenue of defence.
However, we are where we are. If you check the terms and conditions for parking displayed on the car park signs, and you believe you complied with them, then you can construct a defence. Often cases are discontinued when they are properly defended and we can guide you through the process, starting with a Letter of Claim which - again - you need to show us when you receive it. It’s a process and requires attention to details such as dates.
In the meantime you will receive rubbish from debt collectors which we don’t want to see and to which you should not respond in any way.
But we can’t help you if you talk about things without showing them to us as well. Obscure your name and address and claim numbers and any passwords but do
not obscure any dates, for some reason lots of posters here think that they need to obliterate dates and these are usually critical in advising you.