Having again read this thread, I reckon that your family want this to be resolved asap. I suggest you authorise me now so that I can write to them regarding the clear and unacceptable blockage in the process and either they get on with it or cancel forthwith. For sure, it would be nice to get this to the Tribunal etc; but, I always take into consideration the OP's needs and circumstances. Just rest assured: there is no way you would lose this!