As someone who wrote one of the three "Read this first" posts (the private parking one), I've tried to make the guide thorough and easy to follow, as well as easy to spot, by making it a 'Sticky' at the top of the forum.
I've accepted as a fact of life that some people will post without having read it, and I am generally fairly patient with those who have somehow missed it, but otherwise seem to be posting in good faith, and will generally point them towards it.
I've less patience for those who, having been directed to read it, fail to do so thoroughly, and expect answers to questions I've already gone to the trouble of answering in the "READ THIS FIRST" thread.
Taking a philosophical view, the reason some posters end up coming here in the first place is because they didn't see/chose not to read relevant information/signs...