@Gladallover if the notice of rejection was lost in the post, there is no guarantee this won't happen for the order for recovery as well. If you miss the order for recovery, it can be hard to impossible to get things back on track, so you can't run that risk.
The PCN is sat at £195 at the moment, keep an eye on
https://pcnevidence.lewisham.gov.uk/pcnonline/index.php (check at least once a week) and as soon as it goes up to £204, you can download
form TE9, fill it in (remember the applicant is the council, not you) and tick the box to say you made representations and never got the notice of rejection. You don't have to print the form off, as the court will accept a typed signature.
Once the form is filled in, email it to tec@justice.gov.uk with the PCN number in the subject line.
When the amount due on the TFL website drops back down to £65, it means TEC has served a revoking order on the council. Let us know when this happens (you'll need to check once every 10 days or so after you've emailed TEC) and we'll help with the next steps.
Any questions please ask.